dwagar said:
when it's cold, try giving it a light sand (sandpaper) down to bare metal and start fresh.
The tips have a cladding, like plateing on them.
Once that is burnt through or chipped off, the metal underneath oxidizes very quickly when it is heated. At that point I buy a new tip and once again try to keep it always covered in solder (tinned) at all times.
I bought a red weller base/holder that has a heat control and I now spin the dial down to 3 just to keep the tip idling and when I need to solder I whip it up to 5.
I've gone from a new tip every 6 months to having this tip for over two years already and it is still going strong.
The base has a sponge as well but I only use that just before I solder and I re-tin right after the sponge. If it is going back into the holder I don't clean it with the sponge as I want that old solder on it so that it oxidizes rather than the tip.
And use solder that has the resin built into it. Kester or similar.