Thanks so much for all of the input and advice guys! It’s really helpful. Originally I was going to have the mij tak my dad gave me for my 18th b day in for a refret and give that one to him. I think that would have been super sentimental for dad, and that guitar did me really well for a long time. But the 12 fret has a really long wait time in service and I decided we might as well bring a new axe into the family, and if he takes to playing we can hand down this guitar to my son. So in the end I am 95% sure I’m going to grab the Yamaha fs800t. I will definitely check out the return policy, but I can’t imagine he’d be anything but thrilled. I would love to take him to the store and try tones of guitars, but at this point he doesn’t even know how to strum a single chord; he might feel awkward in that environment. Heck, Ive been playing since the late 80s and guitar store dudes make me feel awkward.... anyway, thanks again to all of you for chiming in. I really appreciate the community here very much!
All the best guys, and happy holidays!