I really enjoyed Petrucci's Rock Discipline book. Not sure about the DVD but that book is specifically aimed at increasing your right/left hand co-ordination, picking and fretting accuracy, dexterity and speed....finger dexterity.
Learn To Play Your Guitar - A Method For Beginners
I started off playing from this video. it teaches all the basics and how to do various exercises like bending, vibrato, etc. i found this video pretty helpful even though i think this isn't what you were actually looking for.. just thaught id point it out.