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david henman
08-22-2007, 01:28 PM
...there is a thread running on the tdpri forum about structuring rehearsals and, as i suspected, most musicians hate rehearsing.
without getting judgemental (hey, to each his own), i'm curious to know if that majority is really representative. most of the musicians i have worked with hate rehearsing, which is why a believe that it IS representative.
one very important distinction: cover band vs original. i think most players will agree that rehearsing cover songs to death can be both tedious and counter-productive.
my second question is: how do you structure rehearsals?
-dh
iaresee
08-22-2007, 02:01 PM
There are only two circumstances that come to mind where I've really hated rehearsing:
1) I no longer enjoy the company of the people I'm making music with and rehearsing means enduring their presence; or
2) Others in the room are not practicing as they should be and rehearsals are wasting my time because the band as a whole is not moving forward. I like to spend my time well and don't take kindly to others wasting it by showing up unprepared (or worse: not showing up at all). At the end of the rehearsal if something has been accomplished (we worked out the timing on a tricky tempo change, the harmonies are finally happening on the vocals, anything really) I'm going to walk away satisfied.
Prolonged exposure to #2 inevitably begets #1. Otherwise any time I spend with my hands on my guitar is good time.
think most players will agree that rehearsing cover songs to death can be both tedious and counter-productive.
Rehearsing anything to death can be counter productive, not just covers. The best way to break a rut in any kind of band is to try something new. Switch instruments. Learn a new cover. Play the random-change game.
how do you structure rehearsals?
For a 3 hour rehearsal with a rock band doing original material it's usually 30 minutes of warm up. Some jam-type thing to get everyone in the same mind space. This is also the time when new ideas get passed around and the foundations for new songs get worked on. Followed by an hour or so working on sections of stuff that were not great at the last rehearsal (record your rehearsals and analyze them afterwards so you know for certain what needs work). A ten minute break. Vocal work after that for 20 minutes, harmonies in particular. What happens in the last hour depends on what's going on: if there's a show to be played soon the last hour is spent running a full set in situ -- no breaks, no bull shit, play it like it's your last show on earth. We rotate the set list from week to week to see how certain change ups work -- some songs play well into each other, you don't always want to end every night with the same song, etc. And the last rehearsal before a show we do the set list as we intend to play it the night of the gig. If there's some time before the next show the last hour is spent working on new songs and occasionally learning a new cover to throw into the set. Rotating who picks the cover helps you discover what your bandmates like and helps expose you to stuff you might not usually play.
For theater and orchestra rehearsals where it's usually 4 hour slots it's warm up for 15 minutes. Usually some big band jazz piece with soloists getting a chance to do a little ad lib. Then it's run the pieces that are well known. Then run the pieces that are new or being worked on with breaks to work out the harder parts that aren't right. Break for 15 minutes. Sectionals after the break. If I'm directing I'll make the rounds during the sectionals to make sure the groups are practicing what I think needs work. If I'm in the rhythm section then it's sectional work as usual. Then it's usually a final run through of the newest piece. Followed by notes.
Milkman
08-22-2007, 02:15 PM
Rehearsals for me are enjoyable, but I don't believe there's any merit in most cases to having marathon sessions.
A two hour rehearsal can be very productive if people do their homework.
To me the process of developing the songs for stage is interesting and gratifying.
Put it this way, I won't walk on stage with an unrehearsed band unless it's a guest spot or an open mic.
bagpipe
08-22-2007, 02:22 PM
I voted "love rehearsing". I play in a cover band and we rehearse once a week, for 2 hours. We typically learn a new song every 2 weeks. I enjoy the rehearsals but mainly because everyone is good about learning their respective parts for new songs. I have been in previous bands where everyone agrees on a new song and then certain members (always the same members!) dont bother learning the song and want to learn it as we try it. That is annoying.
We are presently trying to come up with some original material with this band which should make the rehearsals even more fun.
Hamm Guitars
08-22-2007, 06:00 PM
I used to love rehearsing with a band, unless there was someone who wanted to make it all structured and work - like.
Get tight and have a blast is all I really ever expect to get out of it. If the blast part isn't happening, I'd have to question why I was doing it though.
It has been quite some time since I've been to a band rehearsal though.
Ripper
08-22-2007, 07:00 PM
I love rehearsals. I just love to play. I have to admit there are some of the old covers that sometimes can be a little blah to play and then the next time not. Most of the bands I've been in have tried not to have things to structured as that takes the fun out of it. We would always take about half the time for working on original stuff and kicking around ideas, and then at the end we'd usually sit around and make some suggestions for new covers and come back with them the next week or so.
I_cant_play
08-22-2007, 08:22 PM
well I just joined my first real band about a week ago. We rehearse twice a week for 2 hours and I really enjoy it. I really enjoy playing just about anything. My background is kind of classic rock but if a country band needed a guitarist I would have absolutely no problem learning country songs. My only complaint about rehearsals is the breaks we take. When we get there, it takes maybe 15-20 mins to set up and to make everything sound fine and then we play for a while and then everyone just stops to take a break for 10-15 mins. We're paying for the room by the hour and it's not like we've just played a gig or something so I don't understand what are we taking a break from. I would have no problem with marathon rehearsals as long as they are in a comfortable environment. There has to be food and stuff and it can't smell as bad as the place we rehearsed last time.
Michelle
08-23-2007, 09:18 AM
.......... There has to be food and stuff and it can't smell as bad as the place we rehearsed last time.
ah-haha! That is funny! Yeah, it makes for a great get-together when you turn it into a sort-of social event, I avoid too much alcohol in practice and gigs though, just slows me down.
I love to rehearse, playing bass by yourself is a bit boring, I usually crank the tunes we are doing and go at it but rehearsals give me a chance to gear the timing to the band, not the recording and it helps to have someone else to help figure the parts I can't hear properly, I play by ear exclusively and I usually play something for at least an hour/day.
We generally go over things that need to be worked out and there is always time for 'jamming'. It's all worth it, making music is the goal.
Playing guitar is a different scenario, I play for fun, like a truck-driver that has a sports car for fun driving. I rarely play with recordings, I turn on the 'drummer that is always there' and crank the old Traynor using a spare split-second to do the bass on keys. The goal is to squeeze out 'that tone' and play something that lifts me off the ground :rockon2:
Mich
Xanadu
08-23-2007, 09:29 AM
We have practise every week. And we all look forward to it. But lately we're over-practising our songs, and getting on eachothers nerves.
hoser
08-23-2007, 09:30 AM
generally love rehearsing. it can suck if there's some sort of drama or the band is on its last legs.
a 3 hr rehearsal typically goes.....run through some songs there are issues with, then work on new material if we have time. rehearsals before shows are always about going through the set a few times and ironing out any kinks.
Coustfan'01
08-23-2007, 10:22 AM
Like most of you said , rehearsing sucks if someone's not doing their homework . We usually work on new songs more , and try to go through the whole set once . The whole rehearsal is about 2 hours , sometimes a bit more .
dwagar
08-23-2007, 10:39 AM
We play strictly cover tunes.
Practicing 3 hours once a week is a high point of the week for me, I look forward to it.
We play live about every 6 weeks (we only play in the community pub), so our structure is setting out the list of what we want to play at the next gig, then work through them towards the gig. We've got a lot of songs on the main list (maybe 300) and we usually add one or two new ones. The 'gig' is 3 hours, and we get a lot of the same crowd every time, so we try to change songs every time. This way we don't get bored, they don't get bored, and it's more fun.
If we were playing bar gigs, etc. we'd probably have to work towards a 'best' list and polish it more, that would be a lot more boring I think.
david henman
08-23-2007, 01:54 PM
...okay, here's how my band structures rehearsals. but first, a warning: i am a contrarian - if the whole world is driving on the left side of the road, i drive on the right. so this should NOT be perceived as a "this is how YOU should rehearse" or a "my way is the best/only way" post.
most of the musicians i have worked with over my lifetime hate rehearsing. personally, i crave it. thus, when i decided to form my own band, the number one priority was to find musicians who are as obsessed with playing/rehearsing as i am.
i succeeded, big time!
my band rehearses for the entire weekend, unless there is a gig. we play onlhy originals, no covers.
we start on friday night at seven and play until after midnight. we re-convene at four pm saturday and play until well after midnight, with a break for dinner (we take turns cooking). everyone stays over, (spouses included) and we sit up half the night watching concert dvds. then we get together for a large breakfast, which i usually prepare, and rehearse from noon until about six pm sunday. at that point i am ready to collapse from exhaustion, as i am both the lead vocalist and guitarist in my trio.
needless to say, we all love to rehearse. i take immense pleasure in knowing that i will never again have to work with a musician who doesn't love rehearsing. our rehearsals are completely unstructured. very rarely do we make a plan or decide in advance what we will play - our rehearsals are almost 100% spontaneous.
our spouses are our audience and they tell us they never get bored, even during the extended jams. we also welcome friends to drop by and enjoy the music and hospitality.
here is where i/we differ from the "norm":
1. rehearsals need to be structured:
most players i have worked with insist that there needs to be structure. they need to know what they are going to be rehearsing, and why. when my band sits down to rehearse, we have no clue whatsoever as to what we are going to play. our recording sessions often go the same way.
2. if a song doesn't come together right away, just move on and come back to it later:
not in my band. we never, ever, give up. at that point when the song gets bogged down, the whole process tedious, and everyone is starting to go for each other's throats, we light up! we dig our heels in and get deep inside the song. an hour or two later, we may end up right back where we started, but we will have a better grasp of the "essence" of the song, and even done a little "bonding" along the way.
3. playing/rehearsing has to be fun, otherwise what's the point?
to me, and to the guys in my band, this is moot. to us, the "fun" part is an absolute given. we don't need to make it fun. we don't need to ask ourselves if we are having fun. it begs the question: if merely playing is not inherently fun for you, why do you even bother? if playing music was not fun, and fulfilling, we'd sell our gear and do something that we DO enjoy.
4. it is possible to "over-rehearse" - the music can become tedious and stale:
obviously, this is true for many players. not for me, nor for my guys. in our view, it is simply not possible to "over-rehearse". years ago i helped a bass player named beany put together a band called "bedrokk". he used to rehearse us for 7-8 hours non-stop. we'd play a given song ( at the time, all were instrumentals that he wrote) maybe twenty times in a row, and after each time beany would look at us, grin, and say "okay, once more!" it made no sense at first, but after a while i realized we were getting deep inside the music, and ourselves.
5. learn the song, and your parts, on your own time, and come to rehearsal fully prepared:
again, nope. i like to keep art, and corporate mentality, as far removed as possible. as well, i love the process of everyone learning to play the song together.
needless to say, most of my musician friends think i'm crazy...
-dh
iaresee
08-23-2007, 03:05 PM
i like to keep art, and corporate mentality, as far removed as possible.
What does being organized, competent and knowledgeable of what you're expected to perform have to do with it being art or not? It's not a corporate mentality; it's a courtesy to everyone else in the room. When you have to make it work around families and kids and jobs you want people as prepared as possible for those 3-4 hours you had together every week. Otherwise you go nowhere fast.
david henman
08-23-2007, 03:26 PM
What does being organized, competent and knowledgeable of what you're expected to perform have to do with it being art or not? It's not a corporate mentality; it's a courtesy to everyone else in the room. When you have to make it work around families and kids and jobs you want people as prepared as possible for those 3-4 hours you had together every week. Otherwise you go nowhere fast.
...again, lets be absolutely clear: this is how i see it. this is the way i work. period.
i have no intention, whatsoever, of suggesting, implying or otherwise claiming that what works for me would work for you or anyone else.
-dh
Milkman
08-23-2007, 03:37 PM
...again, lets be absolutely clear: this is how i see it. this is the way i work. period.
i have no intention, whatsoever, of suggesting, implying or otherwise claiming that what works for me would work for you or anyone else.
-dh
I understand.
There comes a time when you know what you like and what you want.
I'm there as well. People often mistake the statement of such opinions and methods as advice.
david henman
08-23-2007, 03:51 PM
I understand.
There comes a time when you know what you like and what you want.
I'm there as well. People often mistake the statement of such opinions and methods as advice.
...its an important distinction. i realized this when i originally responded to a similar thread on the tdpri and suddenly everyone pounced on me as if i was attacking them, personally. here's an example:
"That's nice Dave, why don't YOU sell your stuff?
I didn't get involved in Music in the first place to sit in a room playing "The Story In You Eyes" to an audience of cinderblocks.
Rehearsals are bull****.
That's MY opinion Dave and if You don't like it - lump it.
Maybe if I played in a "tribute/copy group" I'd have to rehearse however to me that stuff is karoake at a higher level.
The more stuff is rehearsed the more STALE and UNENJOYABLE it becomes."
-dh
iaresee
08-23-2007, 03:58 PM
People often mistake the statement of such opinions and methods as advice.
David's defining "art" in his statement I quoted as something that cannot occur when there's structure and preparation (what he seems to think is the corporate mentality), not giving advice. No doubt David didn't mean for it sound like that, but that's how it reads, so I'm going expand the discussion around it. That's way more interesting than listening to people talk about their rehearsal tendencies.
iaresee
08-23-2007, 03:59 PM
...again, lets be absolutely clear: this is how i see it. this is the way i work. period.
i have no intention, whatsoever, of suggesting, implying or otherwise claiming that what works for me would work for you or anyone else.
See my comment to Milkman above: I want to discuss why you think art cannot involve preparation.
david henman
08-24-2007, 08:55 AM
See my comment to Milkman above: I want to discuss why you think art cannot involve preparation.
...the last thing i would ever want to do is set out rules for others to follow.
of course art can involve preparation. i've spent forty-five years preparing for what i'm doing now.
your art can involve anything you want it to, as can mine.
what would art be without individuality?
-dh
david henman
08-24-2007, 09:02 AM
David's defining "art" in his statement I quoted as something that cannot occur when there's structure and preparation (what he seems to think is the corporate mentality), not giving advice. No doubt David didn't mean for it sound like that, but that's how it reads, so I'm going expand the discussion around it. That's way more interesting than listening to people talk about their rehearsal tendencies.
...i can only define my own art. i cannot, and would not, define yours.
i prefer to work without preparation. it is a personal, individual choice.
nothing more.
i perceive the whole concept of implicitly structured rehearsals, where everyone knows in advance what songs will be rehearsed and is expected to arrive fully prepared, as corporate. but, again, that is MY perception.
nothing more. nor would i suggest that there is anything inherently wrong with that approach. to each his own.
school is out when my rehearsals begin.
-dh
david henman
08-24-2007, 12:00 PM
This is off-topic, but use of the word "corporate" as a derogatory version of "businesslike" is a pet peeve of mine. I don't fully understand what people mean when they use the word in that context. One thing that's clear is that most people who use "corporate" in a derogatory sense don't actually know what a corporation is.
Besides, you'd probably be suprised at how many of your favorite bands take a focussed and organized approach to rehearsing for tours or getting ready to record an album. It's difficult to really accomplish much without becoming organized at some point.
...actually, no. i wouldn't. i consider myself very much an outsider, decidedly non-mainstream. i swim against the current intentionally. thus, i assume that the majority of musicians operate quite differently from the way that i operate. i think its a safe assumption.
on the other hand, i think you would be surprised by how many of your favourite bands operate the same way as mine does. it does irk me that they have the luxury of time (ie no day job). sigh...
i don't use the term "corporate" in a derogatory sense, only in the sense that it doesn't appeal to me, personally.
nor do i feel any sense of superiority. its simply a case of "different strokes..."
-dh
iaresee
08-24-2007, 01:13 PM
This is off-topic, but use of the word "corporate" as a derogatory version of "businesslike" is a pet peeve of mine. I don't fully understand what people mean when they use the word in that context. One thing that's clear is that most people who use "corporate" in a derogatory sense don't actually know what a corporation is.
My sentiments exactly. I also understood his use of the word "corporate" as some derogative where he meant "stiff, rigid structure that is immutable" (which, unfortunately, the word corporate cannot be used to describe). However, David could mean "done by or characteristic of individuals acting together (http://www.google.com/search?q=define%3Acorporate)". But that encompasses any band, not just one who prepares ahead of time. Whether you plan ahead of time or not you are acting as a corporation when you act together.
Welcome to the corporate world David! :wink:
dwagar
08-24-2007, 01:35 PM
whoa nelly!
If I've read this correctly, David is coming from a place I didn't know existed anymore. Original tunes rehearsed in a loose environment can (but not always) take them to a place they never went before. He did put a big caveat on his opening statement that this isn't for everyone. Sometimes I wish I could practice like that, but on the other hand, if you don't have a strong band leader, well, I've seen a lot of bands break up trying to accomplish this.
I really think most of us are living in the covers world, more structured, listening to the records, trying to sound as good as we can (can I pull that Hendrix lick?), and wouldn't survive a non-structure like that. Kudos to you guys for doing it, but I don't think it's for me.
Milkman
08-24-2007, 01:49 PM
whoa nelly!
If I've read this correctly, David is coming from a place I didn't know existed anymore. Original tunes rehearsed in a loose environment can (but not always) take them to a place they never went before. He did put a big caveat on his opening statement that this isn't for everyone. Sometimes I wish I could practice like that, but on the other hand, if you don't have a strong band leader, well, I've seen a lot of bands break up trying to accomplish this.
I really think most of us are living in the covers world, more structured, listening to the records, trying to sound as good as we can (can I pull that Hendrix lick?), and wouldn't survive a non-structure like that. Kudos to you guys for doing it, but I don't think it's for me.
I don't think it matters whether you're doing covers or originals in this case.
It really depends on how you write.
I suppose if you write collectively marathon rehearsals would be more productive and perhaps necessary to flesh out the songs. By the time we get ready to rehearse original material, the songs are almost completely written and arranged. It's just a matter of trying a few options and tightening it up in my case.
A song can be ready for preproduction within a few hours.
I_cant_play
08-25-2007, 11:02 PM
David,
what you described is exactly what I had in my head when I was thinking about what kind of band I wanted to be in. I don't know if I could do without any kind of preparation however. I guess it depends on the kind of music you're playing to a certain degree too. It's one thing to learn a new strumming pattern on the fly but if a certain lick sounds really good but is giving me trouble I would definitely want to tackle it at home and come to rehearsal ready to contribute. Otherwise there's simply no point playing the whole song again and again while making the same mistake repeatedly. That's just bad use of time. I'm a bit of a perfectionist and if I hear something in my head that sounds really good and I'm not able to pull it off, and then I'm forced to play the song again and again with the band while screwing up the same thing, it would constantly be in the back of my mind and every time the part would come I'd just get more frustrated. But like I said, if you're playing stuff that's well within your abilities I can easily see how that could work, but it's not necessarily for every situation.
It's kind of like those guitar lessons where they teach you to isolate the problem and work on it separately. If you're having a problem with 3 seconds of a song it doesn't make much sense to play the whole song every time. So I'd rather sit aside or at home, work on the bit and come back when I can pull it off..
david henman
08-27-2007, 02:01 PM
David,
what you described is exactly what I had in my head when I was thinking about what kind of band I wanted to be in. I don't know if I could do without any kind of preparation however. I guess it depends on the kind of music you're playing to a certain degree too. It's one thing to learn a new strumming pattern on the fly but if a certain lick sounds really good but is giving me trouble I would definitely want to tackle it at home and come to rehearsal ready to contribute. Otherwise there's simply no point playing the whole song again and again while making the same mistake repeatedly. That's just bad use of time. I'm a bit of a perfectionist and if I hear something in my head that sounds really good and I'm not able to pull it off, and then I'm forced to play the song again and again with the band while screwing up the same thing, it would constantly be in the back of my mind and every time the part would come I'd just get more frustrated. But like I said, if you're playing stuff that's well within your abilities I can easily see how that could work, but it's not necessarily for every situation.
It's kind of like those guitar lessons where they teach you to isolate the problem and work on it separately. If you're having a problem with 3 seconds of a song it doesn't make much sense to play the whole song every time. So I'd rather sit aside or at home, work on the bit and come back when I can pull it off..
...makes sense. as well, i think its important to note that i'm almost sixty, and my guys are in their late 40s, so we are relatively accomplished players. that's not to say we don't struggle sometimes!
we rehearsed this past weekend, as usual. we put in close to twenty hours. we went in friday evening with abolutely no plan. we accomplished a ton.
-dh
david henman
08-27-2007, 02:05 PM
A song can be ready for preproduction within a few hours.
..it can. for example, this past weekend we developed several new songs that just seemed to fall into place (except for the lyrics...argh!).
on the other hand, a song that we had been struggling with for several months just as suddenly came together - it was well worth the time and patience invested.
-dh
offkey_
09-03-2007, 09:58 AM
I play in a team of around 20 musicians that all have day jobs. Each musician plays live once or twice a month. Every week a new band is put together out of that pool of 20 people. We practice for around one hour before we play six songs for approximately 400 people. My method is to learn the songs at home and in practice, we just go over them and insure everyone knows there parts. On another note, I can relate to David with the long (fun) weekend practice sessions. When I was much younger, the band I was in played in did the same as what David described. I do miss that.......... but priorities for me have changed. Family and work seem to do strange things to a man.:food-smiley-004:
david henman
09-05-2007, 09:52 AM
On another note, I can relate to David with the long (fun) weekend practice sessions. When I was much younger, the band I was in played in did the same as what David described. I do miss that.......... but priorities for me have changed. Family and work seem to do strange things to a man.:food-smiley-004:
...yeah, been there. fortunately, however, the priorities change yet again once the kids have left the nest - assuming you have an appreciative and supportive spouse.
-dh
gproud
09-05-2007, 10:18 AM
Unfortunately, rehearsal is the only we have lately. Gigs are few and far between right now. So I love rehearsing. Plus I play with a couple of pretty funny dudes, so it's always a hoot...:rockon2:
CobaltBlue72
09-09-2007, 05:32 PM
hmmm i've always been involved in just jam's we never called them rehearsals 'cause we weren't ready to perform at the time.
zontar
01-13-2008, 09:37 PM
Put it this way, I won't walk on stage with an unrehearsed band unless it's a guest spot or an open mic.
I've been on stage with a less than properly rehearsed band, and it's not pleasant. It was a lesson--1)to rehearse--both the band and the individuals.
& 2) Not to be afraid to refuse to get on stage in that circumstance (Which I've done as well--(no contract was involved & the lack of rehearsal was not my fault--I was ready, willing, able & present at every rehearsal planned.))
On the other hand I have been in front of a group without rehearsal where it wasn't a concert--if the musicians are experienced and good enough, you can pull it off.
What I enjoyed most was just getting together to jam, and going from there.
zinga
01-14-2008, 05:53 PM
A friend and i went to a small bar,from there we booked the bar, that night came we went to play we never practice at all had the best time, we just winged it ppl ate it up. lol. done this with bands to. booked a gig made up a name called ppl i need no practice just played lol. try it ,its great fun.:banana:
david henman
01-16-2008, 11:33 AM
A friend and i went to a small bar,from there we booked the bar, that night came we went to play we never practice at all had the best time, we just winged it ppl ate it up. lol. done this with bands to. booked a gig made up a name called ppl i need no practice just played lol. try it ,its great fun.:banana:
...its also part of the reason that people don't go out to bars to see bands like they used to.
why go to the trouble of going out to see a group of musicians who can't be bothered to go to the trouble of rehearsing?
-dh
BigrockJamie
01-17-2008, 06:32 PM
Rehearsing to me depends on the band. If a certain chemistry is there, Rehearsal time is not needed much but if there isn't I find that rehearsals are needed more often. Also, the way a band rehearses depends on the band too. I've been in bands that rehearsals are structured and songs are meticulously torn apart and made sure all parts are correct but I've also been in bands that rehearsal time consists of "Here, smoke this..drink this...snort this...:eek:):rolleyes:
david henman
01-18-2008, 10:46 AM
I've also been in bands that rehearsal time consists of "Here, smoke this..drink this...snort this...:eek:):rolleyes:
...which begs the clearly rhetorical question: where are they now?
-dh
...which begs the clearly rhetorical question: where are they now?
-dh
D'yer remember the closing credits in The Blues Brothers???? :smile:
david henman
01-18-2008, 11:57 AM
D'yer remember the closing credits in The Blues Brothers???? :smile:
...i don't remember my own family's birthdays and anniveraries. in fact, i have two daughters, and cannot tell you how old they are.
its the result of too much fiber in my diet..
-dh
elindso
01-31-2008, 12:16 AM
That's so sad.
You should practice your daughters birthdays all weekend.
It should only take one weekend even with their age:smile :
Birthdays parties are often be improvised, but the birthdays aren't.
Children like parents to know their age, name, birthday, even older children:smile:
david henman
01-31-2008, 03:24 PM
That's so sad.
You should practice your daughters birthdays all weekend.
It should only take one weekend even with their age:smile :
Birthdays parties are often be improvised, but the birthdays aren't.
Children like parents to know their age, name, birthday, even older children:smile:
...since both of my daughters inherited my poor memory, and can't remember my age, birthday or father's day, they can easily empathasize. we have a solid connection - that's what is important.
-dh
elindso
02-03-2008, 08:35 AM
I was kidding David.
I'm way over 50 and my father calls in March and asks me who's birthday is it?
My sister and brother are the 2 nd and 9th
david henman
02-07-2008, 09:44 AM
I was kidding David.
I'm way over 50 and my father calls in March and asks me who's birthday is it?
My sister and brother are the 2 nd and 9th
...i'm ultra-sensitive about my pathetic memory.
:sport-smiley-002:
:2guns:
:D
-dh
elindso
02-08-2008, 10:36 PM
What where did I put my
Keys
Hat
Wallet
Phone
Keys (I lost them while looking for my hat. I know I had them)
Glasses
etc.
My only kid's birthday is Valentines.
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